Greetings, Non Juan fans!

Since I opened up my website, I have had people writing me with dating questions of all kinds!  At first I couldn’t figure out why people were writing me – I mean, I’ve only been taking lessons from Don ”Magic” Juan for a few weeks now, so I’m still not quite where I need to be when it comes to knowing how to get women.

HOWEVER…

Someone pointed out to me that the tips I give actually help them out.  How? By showing others how to NOT get women!

I was a bit insulted at first – after all, my goal is to ATTRACT women – but then I thought: “Hey – at least people are writing me, so I must be doing something right!”

So, each Friday, I will do my best to answer at least ONE question sent to me.  I’d answer more, but my Friday nights are usually pretty busy – waiting by the phone for a girl to call me up does take up quite a bit of my time (all night, actually). 

And hey – if you’d like me to answer one of your dating/relationship questions, you can E-mail me at ASK@NonJuan.com, or leave your question as a comment on one of my hilarious Non Juan videos!

And now, onto this week’s question…

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Hey Non Juan -

I guess i have a dilemma. I love this girl, but she has some one else.   She says she loves me, too, but she doesn’t want to share her life with me.

I know that in the future we will meet again and i don’t want to wait for later.  I tell her we should be together now and f[forget] waiting for the future -  we should make this the future. However, she doesn’t say anything when we discuss the issue.

Meanwhile, she continues to send me provocative pics and i write her things that make her want to be with me.  Still,  she is strong and doesn’t go with her feelings.  Should i pursue her or totally ignore her?  I would deeply appreciate your response to this matter.

Sincerely, H. K.

And now, Non Juan repsonds…

Hi, H.K. -

CONGRATULATIONS!! I must applaud you, H.K., for you are doing a GREAT job of following some of the Non Juan principles!!

First of all: you convinced your brain to believe her when she said she loves you – good for you!!

By doing so, you were able to ignore the more obvious signals indicating she does NOT love you – i.e. having another boyfriend and saying things ”I don’t want to spend the rest of my life with you!”  Instead, you were able to  focus solely on the words you wanted to hear, hoping they were true!

They’re not, but don’t let that stop you from believing them!!

Secondly – and this is what REALLY makes you a true Non Juan – is that you are willing to forgo finding girls who ARE single and WANT to be with you, so that you may continue to go after someone who is repelled at the thought of being with you!!

You should NEVER think about the possibility that there are other girls out there who are more worth your time! Instead, you need to continue to obsess over this one girl that you can’t have!

You also need to continue thinking up different reasons you can argue to her about why she should be yours NOW. (My personal record is giving a girl 734 reasons to date me.  It didn’t work, but at least I have a list to use on other girls who reject me!)

Even if you think you two are meant to be together in the future, you need to show her how impatient you are for the future to get here NOW! That way, she’ll know she has you wrapped around her lil’ finger and can play with your heart strings anyway she likes!

Why do you think she’s sending you those provocative photos, H.K.?  It allows her to get an ego boost out of feeling sexy; at the same time, she knows you don’t have a shot in Hades at getting with her!

As for the things you’re writing to her – KEEP IT UP! Writing this girl romanic-sounding notes is sure to make any girl you’re not yet dating fall instantly in love with you.  It hasn’t worked for ME yet – but I see it work in movies all the time, so KEEP ON WRITING!  After all, nothing is more masculine to a woman than seeing a guy use frilly words for a sappy love poem!

That’s all for now – best of luck!

-Non Juan

SEND NON JUAN YOUR DATING/RELATIONSHIP QUESTIONS TO ASK@NONJUAN.COM!

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